By Shweta Patil
When you think of a long distance relationship, what do you think of? Skype calls and FaceTime sessions? Texting and sending each other photos? While all of these things are definitely important in a long distance relationship, there is so much more to it than that. In this blog post, we will explore the realities of long distance relationships and how you can make them work. From communication to trust to intimacy and more, read on to learn more about what it takes to make a long distance relationship work.
YOU ALWAYS NEED SOMETHING TO LOOK FORWARD TO BE TOGETHER
When you’re in a long distance relationship, it’s important to have things to look forward to together. Whether it’s planning a future trip, talking about your dreams and goals, or just making sure you have regular date nights, looking forward to something together can help keep the spark alive.
It’s easy to become engrossed in the day-to-day grind of a long-distance relationship and forget to create time for fun and excitement. But it will be worth the extra effort if you can find ways to keep your relationship fresh and intriguing. Long-distance relationships necessitate communication and dedication, but they can be extremely rewarding. So remember to enjoy the ride!
BE SLOW TO JUDGE
When you are in a long distance relationship, it is easy to get caught up in the day-to-day and forget to communicate with your partner. When you do not communicate, it is easy to make assumptions about what your partner is thinking or feeling, which can lead to misunderstandings. It is important to remember that just because you are not physically together does not mean that you cannot have a strong and healthy relationship.
It is important to take the time to talk to your partner about what is going on in your life and in theirs. Ask questions and really listen to the answers. Even if you cannot be together in person, you can still show your partner that you care about them and want to understand what they are going through.
MAKE COMMUNICATION OPTIONAL
In a long distance relationship, making communication optional can be a great way to keep the relationship fresh and exciting. By giving each other space to pursue their own interests, couples can maintain a healthy balance in their relationship. This can help prevent feelings of jealousy or possessiveness from creeping into the relationship.
Making communication optional can also help keep the lines of communication open. By giving each other the opportunity to talk about whatever they want, when they want, couples can avoid misunderstandings and build a stronger bond.
Of course, there are times when communication is necessary, such as when one partner is feeling overwhelmed or needs support. But in general, making communication optional can be a great way to keep a long distance relationship healthy and strong.
MAKE SURE THE DISTANCE IS TEMPORARY
When you’re in a long distance relationship, it’s easy to let the physical distance between you and your partner become an emotional one as well. It’s important to stay close to your partner, even when you’re far apart.
Here are some tips for keeping your long distance relationship strong:
1. Stay in touch often. Whether you’re texting, calling, or video chatting, make sure you stay in regular contact with your partner. This will help you feel connected and close, even when you’re apart.
2. Make time for each other. When you’re in a long distance relationship, it’s important to schedule time for each other just like you would if you were together in person. Set aside time each week to talk, and make sure you keep that appointment just like you would any other.
3. Send each other little gifts. A care package full of your partner’s favourite things can help them feel loved and appreciated, even from afar. And it doesn’t have to be anything big or expensive – sometimes the simplest things can mean the most.
4. Plan for visits. Whether it’s a weekend getaway or a longer trip, looking forward to time spent together in person can help get you through the times when you’re apart. Planning ahead also gives you something to look forward to during the times when communication is difficult or strained.
DON’T COMPARE YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO ANYONE ELSE
It can be easy to compare your long distance relationship to other relationships you see around you, but it’s important to remember that every relationship is different. Just because someone else’s relationship seems perfect doesn’t mean that yours isn’t.
It’s also important to remember that comparisons are often based on surface level information. You might not know what goes on behind closed doors in someone else’s relationship, so it’s unfair to compare your own relationship to theirs.
If you find yourself comparing your long distance relationship to others, try to focus on the positive aspects of your own relationship. What do you love about your partner? What are the unique challenges that you face as a couple?
Long distance relationships can be difficult, but they can also be incredibly rewarding. By focusing on the positive aspects of your own relationship, you can make sure that your long distance relationship is the best it can be.
Let yourself trust — and earn that trust yourself.
If you’re in a long distance relationship, it’s important to trust yourself — and to earn that trust yourself. That means being honest with your partner, communication regularly, and being reliable.
It can be tempting to try to control everything in a long distance relationship, but ultimately, you have to trust that your partner is also invested in the relationship and will make an effort to stay connected. If you’re constantly worrying about what your partner is doing or who they’re with, it’ll only put strain on the relationship. So take a deep breath, let yourself trust — and know that you’re worth trusting.
